How TF Do I….increase my sex drive post-baby?

No mojo post-baby? We've been there. Read our tips on how to increase sex drive after your little one arrives.

Also known as: postpartum sex, a dry spell, low libido, getting back in the saddle. 

Regularity: Common…very common…INSANELY common.

Our advice: 

  • Be patient and give yourself some grace.
  • Don’t jump back in because you feel like you should. 
  • Communicate with your partner.
  • Start small. Intimacy comes in many forms. 
  • Remember, everything is a stage. 

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